
What Is Both/And Thinking: A DBT-Inspired Guide to Embracing Life’s Messy Middle
Both/And thinking, inspired by Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), helps us move beyond black-and-white thinking by making space for life’s contradictions. It reminds us that two opposing truths can exist at once—you can be overwhelmed and grateful, healing and hurting, strong and still need support. This mindset allows for more emotional flexibility, less inner conflict, and a deeper acceptance of life’s messy middle.