Imposter syndrome is something many high-achieving professionals and individuals experience. It’s that nagging feeling that you don’t belong or that you’re not as capable as others think you are, even if you have evidence of success. Understanding what imposter syndrome feels like can help you identify it in yourself and start working through those feelings.
Just a quick heads-up: this quiz isn’t therapy—think of it more like a check-in with yourself! If you find that imposter syndrome is really getting you down, talking to a professional can be a game-changer. You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way, and there’s always support available whenever you need it!
Ready to see if imposter syndrome is quietly lurking in your thoughts? Take a moment to answer these 10 fun but insightful questions and get a clearer picture of whether these feelings are holding you back. Let’s go!
1. Do you feel like your achievements are a fluke?
If you find yourself thinking, “I only succeeded because I got lucky” or “This opportunity came to me by chance,” then imposter syndrome might be at play. It can feel like you don’t really deserve your success, even if others are constantly praising your work.
2. Do you downplay your skills and accomplishments?
Do you often brush off compliments or make excuses when someone acknowledges your achievements? Imposter syndrome can make it difficult to accept your strengths and feel comfortable taking pride in your work.
3. Do you constantly fear being “found out”?
When you’re in meetings, or when someone asks about your work, do you get nervous that someone will discover that you’re not as knowledgeable as they think? That sense of dread about being exposed is a classic symptom of imposter syndrome.
4. Do you attribute your success to external factors rather than your abilities?
When you accomplish something significant, do you attribute it to factors outside of your control (like timing or a good mentor) instead of recognizing your own hard work and skill? If so, you may be experiencing imposter syndrome.
5. Do you feel like others have it all figured out, while you’re just “winging it”?
Imposter syndrome often makes you feel like everyone else is more competent, confident, and knowledgeable. You might feel like you’re just pretending to know what you’re doing while others have their lives perfectly organized.
6. Are you overly critical of your mistakes?
If you make a mistake, do you feel like it’s a reflection of your incompetence rather than a normal part of learning and growth? This perfectionistic thinking is common among those dealing with imposter syndrome.
7. Do you believe that your success is based on being “lucky” or having “connections”?
Another classic sign of imposter syndrome is when you feel that any success you’ve had is due to luck or favorable circumstances rather than your own merit.
8. Do you feel like you have to work harder than others to prove yourself?
People with imposter syndrome often feel the need to work twice as hard as everyone else to compensate for their perceived lack of skill or ability. This can lead to burnout and a sense of inadequacy.
9. Do you struggle with setting realistic expectations for yourself?
If you expect perfection and feel like anything less means you’re failing, this is a symptom of imposter syndrome. It’s hard to accept that success can be a journey with ups and downs, and that mistakes are part of it.
10. Do you have trouble accepting compliments or praise?
Lastly, when others praise you, do you often feel uncomfortable or respond by minimizing your accomplishments? This response can indicate that you don’t truly believe you deserve recognition.
How did you do?
If you found yourself agreeing with several of these questions, you might be struggling with imposter syndrome. The good news is that you’re not alone. Many individuals experience these feelings. The first step is recognizing them and understanding that imposter syndrome doesn’t define your worth or abilities.
If you’re ready to explore strategies to break free from these limiting thoughts, don’t hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional. They can help you start chipping away at those imposter syndrome thoughts and guide you toward embracing your success with confidence.
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J. Oni Dakhari PsyD
ABOUT THE AUTHOR: J. Oni Dakhari, PsyD, is a clinical and pediatric psychologist who loves languages, is an avid traveler, and finds boundless excitement in the pursuit of knowledge and helping others. (NJ LIC# 4481; DE LIC# 736)
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